Life isn’t about Finding Yourself, it’s about Creating Yourself.

It’s not uncommon to hear people say they’re looking to find themselves or discover who they are. To them, this statement might seem perfectly logical, but in reality it makes little sense — because we already know who we are as human beings. The reason why most people think that finding themselves is important is because they assume that it will make them happier, bring more meaning to their lives, or give them some sort of clarity about what to do next.

You’re the only one who can change your life
It can be tempting to think that our life is the result of luck or fate or the decisions of others and that we are at their mercy. But this is a lie. The truth is that our life and what happens to us in it, for better or worse, is all up to us–no matter who we are or where we come from. We all have an opportunity for change every single day, no matter how bleak things seem today. What matters most is not where you’re starting from but where you want to go–and what you decide to do with the opportunities you have along the way.

You’re the only one who can create your happiness
We all have our own idea of what happiness is and how to find it. We often let society tell us that we need a certain materialistic thing or need to be in a certain relationship with someone else to be happy and when we don’t get these things we feel lost or depressed. The truth is you’re the only one who can create your happiness and no one else can do that for you.
First start by figuring out what makes you happy and then work on yourself to make those things happen by making them a priority in your life.

You’re the only one who can make things happen
It’s up to you to make your life happen. Nobody will do it for you or with you. Life is so much better when we take responsibility for our lives and do the work required to create what we want for ourselves. Take a deep breath and jump in! The water might be chilly at first but once you get used to it, you’ll find that there’s nothing more refreshing. You’re alive and that means that every moment of your life is an opportunity: seize it before someone else does!
The Universe is on your side and wants nothing more than for you to be happy. As long as you are taking care of yourself – eating right, exercising regularly, etc – then good things will come into your life no matter how bad they seem right now. Trust the Universe (and yourself) and know that anything worth having won’t be easy; if it were easy then everybody would have all the things they want from their lives instead of just some people.

You’re the only one who can control your destiny
Don’t let someone else dictate your journey. You’re the only one who can control your destiny, so you have to create your own path and do what makes you happy. That doesn’t mean that it will be easy or without struggle, but at least you’ll be following YOUR path and not someone else’s. Believe in yourself and know that you have the power to create anything you want for yourself- just don’t let anyone tell you otherwise!